Why I din't Blog for an Year?

13:43 by Gayu Venkat 8 Comments A⁺ a^-

I have not been into this blogging for a long time. Though there are no specific reason, there are a few determinants for them. Looking back, I feel time has flied so soon with lot of important milestones in my life this year. Every time I think I want to blog, i get struck up with some work or other. If not work, i get lethargic.

I have been whiling away my time happily with my hubby, roaming around in the new place, Sydney. I moved from a spinster life into a responsible wife. I have never paid my bills, booked tickets, or done anything at my home apart from eating, sleeping, chit chatting, and roaming around Chennai with my parents. Though my hubby is a very friendly type and who does everything for me, I don't have my dad to take care of all the utilities and stuffs, or my mom to cook, wash clothes, take care of me. Now i have moved to a position where i need to take care of my hubby and myself , cook for us, prepare provision list, wash clothes, clean home and the list of house hold chores continues. These are not difficult things, yet things need to be done on time and they take more priorities than my hobbies or personal interests. Half the time i am idle, but my mind keeps toggling upon what needs to be done next? I am doing the routine dishes daily, how else can i improve my cooking? Due dates to pay insurance premiums, gas bills, electricity bills, emi's, house tax, water tax, income tax filing dates.. All these keeps running in my mind. Definitely, my partner is very responsible. Yet he may slip out of memory about these when his work prioritizes. I in fact enjoy being responsible, as it gives me a sense of freedom in everything what i do now.

Looking at all these people may wonder this is just a normal thing. Yes i too know it. But moving out from the position of "Childish Princess" to a "Queen" holds too many things to learn, which only a few may descry.

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Tomichan Matheikal

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January 05, 2016 12:02 pm delete

All the best for the new beginning.

Gayu Venkat

January 05, 2016 12:09 pm delete

Thank You

Surya Pandian

January 05, 2016 12:49 pm delete

Al lthe best and Happy married life.
Found your blog via blogger.
Keep writing friend. :)

Yogi Saraswat

January 05, 2016 4:20 pm delete

Hope you will be regular this year . All the best for this year

January 05, 2016 5:12 pm delete

Thank you surya

January 05, 2016 5:13 pm delete

Yes yogi sure

Roohi Bhatnagar

January 06, 2016 1:45 am delete

wow.You are truly a responsible wife. 7 yrs into marriage and I still don't do half of what you manage :P All the best for your blogging this year dear..